Alan Frederick
Matthews

Today, we gather to remember and honor my grandfather—a man who meant so much to so many of us. It’s difficult to find the right words, because no speech can truly capture a lifetime of love, wisdom, and quiet strength. But today, we try, because his life deserves to be remembered. My grandfather was more than just the head of our family; he was its steady heart. He showed his love not always through big gestures, but through presence—by being there when it mattered, by listening, by offering guidance, and by setting an example through the way he lived. He taught us the value of kindness, resilience, and dignity, often without needing to say a word. In his final chapter, he faced kidney failure with courage that inspired everyone around him. Though his body grew tired, his spirit remained strong. He endured more than anyone should have to, and yet he never lost the warmth and humanity that defined him. His passing was heartbreaking, and it feels deeply unfair that he was taken from us this way. But even in loss, we can honor him by remembering the strength he showed and the love he gave so freely. What we will miss most are the moments—the conversations, the laughter, the familiar comfort of knowing he was there. Those memories now become our greatest treasure. They remind us that while his life ended, his influence did not. He lives on in the values he passed down, in the stories we tell, and in the love that continues to bind our family together. Today, we say goodbye with heavy hearts, but also with gratitude. Gratitude for the years we were given, for the lessons he taught us, and for the love he leaves behind. Rest in peace, Grandpa. You will always be remembered, deeply missed, and forever loved. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️